Let all that you do be done in love.

I absolutely love this verse. It’s helped me to get through a lot of dirty laundry, dirty dishes, and just some things I don’t want to do. It’s helped me to stop and listen to my 6 year old tell me about his villager dying while playing Minecraft. Or stopping everything to listen to one of my daughters tell me about the day they had. It’s helped me to stop and help a stranger when I didn’t have the time. It’s helped me to admit that I might actually be wrong a lot! It’s helped me to stay up late and wash the shirt or leggings one of my children needed for the next day. This verse has supported me in raising my children, being my best as a wife, being a good employee, and hopefully being a good friend and family member. It’s guided me to listen more intently, support others, and try to be less irritated with those whom I love.

Most importantly, this verse has helped me forgive unconditionally and reminded me that we are all human and make mistakes. Above all, it encourages me to approach everything with love. I still need this verse as a daily reminder, and some days I fall short, but keeping it close to my heart helps me make kinder, more loving choices more often than not. If I could have my children remember one verse or mantra for life, this would be it.

Vision Board Night

I hosted a vision board night with some friends and my four children to wrap up January and set our intentions for February. The evening is definitely one of my favorite memories from 2026! It was so enjoyable to combine three of my favorite activities: eating, chatting, and creating. I felt right in my element and, as a result, didn’t do much creating of my own; instead, I spent a lot of time observing the creativity around me and soaking in the atmosphere. Watching people create is one of my favorite pastimes, as it offers a glimpse into their minds. You can learn a lot about someone through what they produce, and it was truly wonderful to discover more about these extraordinary women—and my little boy, too! I actually didn’t have to purchase much for this event, as I had collected many magazines over the years, along with lots of collage paper and other embellishments for my guests to use. I provided boards, old empty picture frames, and spiral notebooks for them to choose as their base.
Having worked with young children and my own kids for many years, I had plenty of glue sticks and scissors suitable for little hands, which also worked perfectly for my adult guests! One item that I did purchase, and which was well worth it for the event, was the Lamare Vision Board Book from Amazon. It contained over 1,000 images and motivational quotes, which was more than enough for nine people to share, with plenty of images and pages left over. I also asked my guests to bring any clippings, photos, magazines, or their own journals or boards that they’d like to include. I laid everything out on a spare table and everyone was free to collect, cut, and dream away!
I loved watching my daughters and my son gather together, chatting, laughing, and dreaming together. The process to me is always more exciting than the final product. I did love seeing what images they were propelled to paste down on their boards. 
Isabel’s pink tones throughout her board show her planning from beginning to end. She’s going to bring this board to life from beginning to end! 
Melinas, I love her “MAKE IT HAPPEN AND SHOCK EVERYONE” quote, the funny thing is, she’s going to be the one shocked, not everyone else. We all believe in her more than she believes in herself!
Lias is focusing on getting straight A’s! Yeah! Looks like she’s got some traveling plans, fitness, and eating healthy. I love her “slow progress is still progress” quote. So true Lia! You’re wise beyond your years!I love the things you love!
and for my grand finale…
This board is so you, Liam! Money, basketball, sneakers, 2023 must have been a good year? Jesus! Love your visions, so precious!
I finally finished a page in my journal. I decided to do a journal versus a completed board. Committing to a board or feeling like I had to fill up space on a board and call it complete was too much of a commitment for this erratic, chaotic, uncertain, creative, ever-changing MIND!  I think I’m going to go month by month. I finally finished what I wanted to accomplish in January! I accomplished some of these goals, and whatever I didn’t, I can carry into February.

 

And that’s a wrap!

Winter Ambiance

When I hear a snowstorm is on its way, I fantasize about experiencing a real-life winter ambience like those I keep playing on my tv. I think of pretty snow and the wind blowing and a fire roaring and a cappuccino on the coffee table steaming hot for hours and hours, a dog deeply breathing in and out and a random cat even though I don’t have a one. I dream I’ll be sitting cozy while reading a book and catching up on some creative project I’ve been wanting to start, but that’s not my reality these days and that’s ok. However, there were some magical moments like catching a snowflake on my jacket while walking over to feed the chickens. I put a candle I made at a friend’s house under my candle warmer. So pretty. I lit a candle in my living room, which was lovely to smell throughout the day.

Watched my kids frolic in the snow.Visited our free little libraryMade fresh tortillas. Drew pictures of a rooster and a chicken with Liam. and went on a winter night walk with Liam and Lia. I guess the day turned out better than sitting around inside a winter ambience.

Liam’s Family

I absolutely love the picture that Liam created of our family. During one of his meetings, his teacher mentioned to me, “Liam loves his family!” We talked about how he can sometimes become a distraction to himself, and she often finds herself asking, “Liam, what is taking you so long?” He really struggles with attention span! While doing homework, he stands sideways on his chair, writes sloppily on purpose, or writes the wrong answers even when I know he knows the correct ones. It seems like he enjoys wasting time, or maybe that’s just his way of being playful and silly.

However, today he spent some focused time drawing this picture, and his teacher is right: “Liam loves his family, and that’s more important than anything else!” He values his family so much and loves being together at home. When one of us is not at the dinner table, he feels like we aren’t really having dinner and its not dinner time.

At the age of 6 he already knows what’s important to him. I hope he always remembers that as he continues on his great big journey of life.

The art of taking notes

These are, without question, the most beautiful notes I’ve ever seen. While Isabel referred to them as “garbage,” I find myself wondering why she doesn’t publish them. I cannot bring myself to part with her notebook because I am in such awe of her precision.

Her note-taking is a perfect mirror of her personality: focused, organized, and scientific. Like her father, she possesses an incredible ability for analytical thought and logical sequencing, those “left-brain” traits that provide the structure necessary to bring creative ideas to life.

My own mind works quite differently. My notes are a scattered reflection of my “right-brain” tendencies: curiosity, visualization, and big-picture thinking. I often have countless projects in motion and thoughts that surface only to be quickly buried by the next inspiration. While I’ve mastered the art of multitasking, a glance at my notes reveals the beautiful, busy chaos of my internal world. They are everywhere—in planners, brain-dump journals, on my nightstand, and even in my car.

I am always thinking, and rarely about just one thing. Even back in school, I never used a proper format or filled pages with the meticulous detail she does. Looking back, I’m not even sure what I was doing—mostly scribbling and daydreaming, I’m sure! Regardless even if she doesn’t see the value in these notes now, as her mom, I know exactly what they reveal about her and one day she will see how much I admire her.

Happy 81 years

On December 17, 1978 I was a birthday gift you took home on your birthday, December 19th. From that day on you have been a gift to me and everyone who knows you! Hope you know how much you are loved by your family, friends and neighbors. You have a place for everyone in your heart. You’re selfless and have bounds of energy, you’re super talented and creative and with you everything is possible. Hope you had a birthday as wonderful as you!

Playing Dreidel

Hanukkah’s beauty lies in its quiet simplicity, far removed from the rush of the holiday season. I love the ritual of lighting the menorah where the candles grows brighter each night. The joy is found in the small things like the playful thrill of a dreidel game around the kitchen table, and the savory, golden crunch of fresh latkes and jelly donuts called Sufganiyot. It is a celebration that doesn’t need much—just light, family, and the enduring comfort of tradition.
I especially love the simple game of dreidel. I would have loved playing this as a child! I’m sure my brother and I would have found a way to fight over it but I’m sure it would have brought lots of joy as well. It’s Nothing fancy, all you need is a dreidel and pieces of anything, traditionally gelt or chocolate coins. But you can use real coins or whatever you have on hand. I like to keep a little set up near by so at anytime anyone can enjoy a quick game.
Playing dreidel involves spinning a four-sided top to win tokens, such as chocolate gelt or pennies, from a central pot.
Setup
  1. Distribute Tokens: Give each player 10–15 game pieces (e.g., gelt, nuts, or raisins).
  2. Create the Pot: Every player puts one token into the center to start.
  3. Turn Order: Players spin the dreidel; the “highest” letter (Nun > Gimel > Hey > Shin) goes first. 
How to Play
On your turn, spin the dreidel once. Follow the action for the letter facing up when it stops:
  • נ (Nun): “Nischt” (Nothing) — Do nothing.
  • ג (Gimel): “Gantz” (Everything) — Take the whole pot.
  • ה (Hey): “Halb” (Half) — Take half-the pot (round up for odd numbers).
  • ש (Shin): “Shtel” (Put in) — Put one token into the pot. 
 Rules for the Pot
  • Replenishing: If the pot is empty or has only one token left, every player must add one token before the next spin.
  • Ending the Game: Play continues until one person has won all the tokens, or you can set a timer and declare the person with the most tokens the winner. 

 

How a little pumpkin became Santa Claus

A short story told by an odd-looking pumpkin.

It was November 28, 2025, a day I had been dreading. It was the day right after Thanksgiving.

Up until then, I had been proudly placed on the front porch with all the other pumpkins and cozy fall decor. Anna, the one who had spotted me on that cold October day in the pumpkin patch, loved fall, loved Thanksgiving, and—crucially, during this time—loved the color orange.

You should have seen the inside of her house. Fall garland of orange leaves was beautifully hung along the window curtain rods and entryways. Orange and rust-colored pillows lay on her couches, and she even had little hints of orange throughout the house in the form of mini pumpkins, candles, and dishes.

But her love for orange-colored things is very temporary. As soon as that Thanksgiving turkey is cooked and devoured, I know I’m going to be next to have my fate handed over to me. Maybe it’s the stress of all the Thanksgiving prep, or perhaps it’s the overload of desserts—something sets Anna off as soon as the holiday is over, and she almost makes everything disappear as if nothing ever happened.

One good thing, I must say, is that I didn’t get carved, and pumpkins like me usually don’t. Due to my bumpy texture, I’m typically more of an “accent pumpkin.” People either hate me or love me, and Anna certainly fell in love with me when she first laid her pretty blue eyes on me.

“I need to have this pumpkin!” she said! I don’t blame her; I’m a pretty good-looking pumpkin.

Anyhow, even though I didn’t get carved, I knew I wasn’t going to be hanging around for much longer. I started seeing all this red and green decor coming out. The kids were suddenly in holiday pajamas, lights were going up on the porch, and a wicker reindeer quickly took my spot by the barrel of hay. I knew it was over for me.

Little by little, or shall I say, as quick as possible, anything and everything that was orange began to disappear. All of a sudden, she couldn’t stand that color anymore. If you were orange, you were out!

I saw Anna grab another pumpkin and make her way to the backyard. Some she put down near potted plants on the back porch—out of sight, out of mind! Okay, so maybe she was just going to move us all back there.

Next, it was the two big, fat, round pumpkins. They didn’t get carved either. I saw her stop and think for a moment, and then noticed she put those inside the house. Okay, not bad, I thought to myself.

Then came the moment I was dreading, or perhaps actually thinking, “This isn’t so bad, maybe I’m heading inside too.

She grabbed me and another odd-looking pumpkin by our stems and carried us all the way into what seemed like a chicken coop!

A chicken coop! “No, why me?” I thought. “This is not going to be good.” I had heard about this. They leave us in here to get pecked and eaten away by a bunch of chickens.

“Anna, how could you do this to me?” I thought. She loved me! I was her pride and joy, and now all I was was a long-term chicken snack. The torture could last a long time. They peck and peck, little by little, until I become an open, empty, rotting pumpkin.

She closed the gate and went back into the house. Good thing for me, the chickens weren’t quick to notice me, so I stayed quiet and prayed for the best.

And then I heard the gate open.

My stem was grabbed by a warm hand—it was Anna. She came back for me! I knew she would.

She then placed me on the round, oval table near the blue velvety couch—not an orange thing in sight, might I add. But she put me down, looked at me, and whispered, “I’m going to turn you into Santa Claus!”

And this is the story of how I became Santa Claus. 

Morale of the story? Seasons come and seasons go, and some seasons even surprise us!

Supplies used for my amazing transformation:

Acrylic markers

and a good-looking pumpkin