Happy 81 years

On December 17, 1978 I was a birthday gift you took home on your birthday, December 19th. From that day on you have been a gift to me and everyone who knows you! Hope you know how much you are loved by your family, friends and neighbors. You have a place for everyone in your heart. You’re selfless and have bounds of energy, you’re super talented and creative and with you everything is possible. Hope you had a birthday as wonderful as you!

Playing Dreidel

Hanukkah’s beauty lies in its quiet simplicity, far removed from the rush of the holiday season. I love the ritual of lighting the menorah where the candles grows brighter each night. The joy is found in the small things like the playful thrill of a dreidel game around the kitchen table, and the savory, golden crunch of fresh latkes and jelly donuts called Sufganiyot. It is a celebration that doesn’t need much—just light, family, and the enduring comfort of tradition.
I especially love the simple game of dreidel. I would have loved playing this as a child! I’m sure my brother and I would have found a way to fight over it but I’m sure it would have brought lots of joy as well. It’s Nothing fancy, all you need is a dreidel and pieces of anything, traditionally gelt or chocolate coins. But you can use real coins or whatever you have on hand. I like to keep a little set up near by so at anytime anyone can enjoy a quick game.
Playing dreidel involves spinning a four-sided top to win tokens, such as chocolate gelt or pennies, from a central pot.
Setup
  1. Distribute Tokens: Give each player 10–15 game pieces (e.g., gelt, nuts, or raisins).
  2. Create the Pot: Every player puts one token into the center to start.
  3. Turn Order: Players spin the dreidel; the “highest” letter (Nun > Gimel > Hey > Shin) goes first. 
How to Play
On your turn, spin the dreidel once. Follow the action for the letter facing up when it stops:
  • נ (Nun): “Nischt” (Nothing) — Do nothing.
  • ג (Gimel): “Gantz” (Everything) — Take the whole pot.
  • ה (Hey): “Halb” (Half) — Take half-the pot (round up for odd numbers).
  • ש (Shin): “Shtel” (Put in) — Put one token into the pot. 
 Rules for the Pot
  • Replenishing: If the pot is empty or has only one token left, every player must add one token before the next spin.
  • Ending the Game: Play continues until one person has won all the tokens, or you can set a timer and declare the person with the most tokens the winner. 

 

How a little pumpkin became Santa Claus

A short story told by an odd-looking pumpkin.

It was November 28, 2025, a day I had been dreading. It was the day right after Thanksgiving.

Up until then, I had been proudly placed on the front porch with all the other pumpkins and cozy fall decor. Anna, the one who had spotted me on that cold October day in the pumpkin patch, loved fall, loved Thanksgiving, and—crucially, during this time—loved the color orange.

You should have seen the inside of her house. Fall garland of orange leaves was beautifully hung along the window curtain rods and entryways. Orange and rust-colored pillows lay on her couches, and she even had little hints of orange throughout the house in the form of mini pumpkins, candles, and dishes.

But her love for orange-colored things is very temporary. As soon as that Thanksgiving turkey is cooked and devoured, I know I’m going to be next to have my fate handed over to me. Maybe it’s the stress of all the Thanksgiving prep, or perhaps it’s the overload of desserts—something sets Anna off as soon as the holiday is over, and she almost makes everything disappear as if nothing ever happened.

One good thing, I must say, is that I didn’t get carved, and pumpkins like me usually don’t. Due to my bumpy texture, I’m typically more of an “accent pumpkin.” People either hate me or love me, and Anna certainly fell in love with me when she first laid her pretty blue eyes on me.

“I need to have this pumpkin!” she said! I don’t blame her; I’m a pretty good-looking pumpkin.

Anyhow, even though I didn’t get carved, I knew I wasn’t going to be hanging around for much longer. I started seeing all this red and green decor coming out. The kids were suddenly in holiday pajamas, lights were going up on the porch, and a wicker reindeer quickly took my spot by the barrel of hay. I knew it was over for me.

Little by little, or shall I say, as quick as possible, anything and everything that was orange began to disappear. All of a sudden, she couldn’t stand that color anymore. If you were orange, you were out!

I saw Anna grab another pumpkin and make her way to the backyard. Some she put down near potted plants on the back porch—out of sight, out of mind! Okay, so maybe she was just going to move us all back there.

Next, it was the two big, fat, round pumpkins. They didn’t get carved either. I saw her stop and think for a moment, and then noticed she put those inside the house. Okay, not bad, I thought to myself.

Then came the moment I was dreading, or perhaps actually thinking, “This isn’t so bad, maybe I’m heading inside too.

She grabbed me and another odd-looking pumpkin by our stems and carried us all the way into what seemed like a chicken coop!

A chicken coop! “No, why me?” I thought. “This is not going to be good.” I had heard about this. They leave us in here to get pecked and eaten away by a bunch of chickens.

“Anna, how could you do this to me?” I thought. She loved me! I was her pride and joy, and now all I was was a long-term chicken snack. The torture could last a long time. They peck and peck, little by little, until I become an open, empty, rotting pumpkin.

She closed the gate and went back into the house. Good thing for me, the chickens weren’t quick to notice me, so I stayed quiet and prayed for the best.

And then I heard the gate open.

My stem was grabbed by a warm hand—it was Anna. She came back for me! I knew she would.

She then placed me on the round, oval table near the blue velvety couch—not an orange thing in sight, might I add. But she put me down, looked at me, and whispered, “I’m going to turn you into Santa Claus!”

And this is the story of how I became Santa Claus. 

Morale of the story? Seasons come and seasons go, and some seasons even surprise us!

Supplies used for my amazing transformation:

Acrylic markers

and a good-looking pumpkin

Homemade Art Stamps

Had so much fun creating these stamps with items I had around the house. I was inspired by Olivia, over at Atiliay. She’s known for making marks and helping us creative people to become unslumped! I had these loose little pieces of wood and decided to use them to make stamps by gluing different types of material to them with a hot glue gun. I haven’t made any marks with them yet. I’m planning to do a fun art class with the 4-year-olds at preschool. I can’t wait to see what marks they make. 

Art and the Process

Similar to art, life is a process. You start in one place and then the process leads you to somewhere you never thought you’d be. This summer I found myself leading a children’s art class. A dream come true… and an unexpected destination in my life. It’s incredible what you can do when you put your mind into it and people see what your capable of even if you don’t see it at the time. The story is not long but a bit of a process so I’m going to skip it for now but i want to document the beautiful work that was born from leaping into this opportunity.  It was such a treat working with these kids and I could never have taught them what they’ve taught me because each and everyone of them is a true artist. None of these kids need to be taught art, they just needed to be lead.

First and last

In less than a week I’m going to have my first highschool graduate and my last kindergarten graduate! I’m excited about both! Life has been so good to us and growing up and getting older is a process and a privilege. It’s been and continues to be both. I can’t wait to see the future unravel for Isabel and I will especially treasure the next tender years with liam. Sandwiched in-between and following not to far along behind Isabel are melina and Lia. I will cherish and anticipate with joy the upcoming milestones ahead for them. But for now I will enjoy every precious moment the day brings.

It’s been and honor and a gift getting to raise all four of these children!

HAPPY 14TH BIRTHDAY!!!

Your birthday was yesterday but just like the day you were born, it was a hectic day.  Your birthday time will always continue to be in the middle of a hectic time of year…smacked in the middle of father’s day and end of school year stuff. But I want you to know how loved you are and what an important ingredient you our in this family. No one makes us laugh like you do!

I can’t wait to meet 14 year old Lia! I hope you have an amazing year! Dont head off to Hawaii just yet. They’ll be plenty of time for that!

Happy 104!

If you were still here on earth you would have turned 104 years old today! Incredible the difference in age that we were! 46 years old and my father would have been 104, that’s a 58 age difference. If you had been younger when I was born I would have had you for a longer time here on earth. But that wasn’t the plan and 37 years was not enough time with you. In the middle of raising a family, I tried hard ro be very intentional with my time with you and Im very happy that we made all of those trips to homedepot together!! I miss you every single day and I know we will meet again one day!